Many fond memories of Nan. She had a special way of setting expectations that pushed people to do and be their best. Kind, yet purposeful, leaving no room for excuses, but giving space to find your own way. That took understanding, insight, and strength. She had a lot of spirit and vision that she shared with anyone and everyone. When I first came to Stamford at the age of 6, she knew I could pronounce my r's, even though I had a hard time with the word "garage." I was frustrated. "Gawage" sounded right to me, and it was easier. My little attitude didn't want to hear that I was wrong, I didn't WANT to go to speech therapy, and I was stubborn! She recognized that, used it, and taught me what to do so I could say it properly without "going to speech." That was a long time ago, and it may sound simple, but it's one of my first memories of overcoming something, namely my own stubbornness! It's something I've had to do many times since, and Nancy taught me how by giving me a choice. Make a change, or accept the results. Thanks, Nan.
